"Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person;
Having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words,
But to pour them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together,
Knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them,
Keep what is worth keeping, and then, with a breath of kindness,
Blow the rest away."
~ George Eliot
If you don't ask the question,
I won't volunteer the answer.